Born Confused

by Tanuja Desai Hidier

Not quite sure what I think of this yet. It's very easy to empahtize with the heroine - except on the point of her maddening, narcissistic, selfish best friend. That character had better redeem herself pronto.

I also find myself wishing, as the best friend does, that I had a culture. Which is absurd, because everyone has a culture, but I know what she means - the peering into difference, lived meaningfully by someone you actually know, in their real life, that the child of WASPy professors in the midwest rarely got. The personal level of this story is its most compelling feature to me. That and the line by a side character who says that confusion is good becuase it encourages you to ask questions. And how.

I rambled about other stuff too. Wanna see?

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projects, friends, etc.

  • I love Bollywood so much that I made a separate blog for it.
  • remember when I went to Australia?
  • when you take grad school too much to heart re: literature
  • when you take grad school too much to heart re: travels
  • The Trophy Wife
  • rock and roll lifestyle
  • Why God Why
  • Technically not a friend, as not a human, but still a place I love very much, so it counts: Massey College
  • credits

  • Blog design is based largely on Not That Ugly with some ideas from Firdamatic with some additional tweaking
  • Flickr rocks! Really.
  • Hurrah for Blogger
  • And for folks trying to library-ize blogs: Blogwise and Blogarama
  • Sorry this looks like poo in Firefox. I've no idea why.